I’ve stuck with it, usually I say I’m never getting on one of those apps again and then end up right back on POF a few days later.
I just don’t have the energy for games anymore, I’m physically and emotionally tired of trying. I have decided that if it isn’t someone I already know or meet naturally then I don’t have time for it.
On dating apps it’s the same thing over and over again… getting asked the questions about yourself by tons of different guys; it’s exhausting. I don’t like talking about myself, I never know what to say. Like I said in my last post, I don’t like chit chat. I prefer getting to know someone in person, it’s easier for me to talk and open up that way.
Plus, I got tired of explaining why I am in a wheelchair, and having to tell the guys that were too lazy to even read my profile that I am even in a chair. It’s scary because you never know how a guy on an app is going to respond. He might not care about the wheelchair, whereas many guys would stop talking to me after they found out. It’s silly how many guys are afraid to even attempt dating me. They just assume it wouldn’t be worth it, or that they would have to become my caretaker and do everything for me. I can do everything by myself. I don’t need a babysitter…I need a boyfriend.
I would much rather learn something about someone, by observing them over them telling me stuff.
Instead of telling me how you like your coffee, I’d rather just watch you make it, and then I know that’s the way you like it…you know?
Probably goes back to the part were I hate chit chat.
The downside to no more dating apps is I am so lonely now. I don’t have a job to go to, I don’t have anywhere I have to be. I rarely get out of the house, cause I have no where I need to go. It’s just Dookie and I all the time now, this needs to change and soon, cause being lonely is getting really old.
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